There was no discomfort or distress, and I didn't exaggerate anything.
I called out their promotion of scamspam, and got a rude deletion notice for my efforts. Ok, fine, they like running a forum full of SEO spam. I am opposed to that, so I effectively asked them to close my account as I do not wish to be associated with a site that promotes SEO spamscammers.
That's all there is to it. Not a great loss to either them or me, but just something I feel strongly about.